“Are you sick and tired of feeling stuck? Do you feel frustrated but can’t gain clarity as to why?”
My journey to get to this point has been quite phenomenal. I’ve had many wounds to heal to be able to continually keep moving forward and have had to consciously stop getting in my own – my inner self saboteur is a BEAST and raises it’s ugly head still far too often for my liking! I haven’t advanced on my own; I’ve had phenomenal mentors and supporters enter my realm. The most influential person to my growth thus far has been an amazing woman named Jenny Leather. (trust me this will get good; I just wanted to give you some history).
I first contacted Jenny after reading her and husband Gary’s story in “The Secrets to Property Millionaires Exposed”- back then; hot on the real estate investing path, I approached Jen to mentor me. What has developed from that one e-mail has been something quite phenomenal. I think I was about 23 at the time and I really didn’t expect anyone to give me the time of day; but I sent e-mails and they got replies. Jen and Gary’s down to earth approach really appealed to me.
Almost 7 years on Jen and I still talk regularly; I would really like to share with you what unfolded this morning.
We ended the call with Jen saying “we should have recorded this” something we say every time – because although we never intend for this phenomenal energy and ‘magic’ to happen – it kind of just does!
I came back online approx a month ago after taking a year off to have my daughter. I am thankful for the last year, because the life lessons have been phenomenal. I have been having a fair bit of inner turmoil regarding direction since coming back online; it’s so EASY for me to look at other people’s business models and make suggestions, but when it comes to my own it kind of goes all over the place; this morning we really narrowed it down to the fact that being a ‘creative’ I see too far ahead and lose focus on the here and now – which was kind of profound for me.
Do you ever do that? Know something’s going on that’s holding you back but you do it anyway?
Yes, I know it’s the definition of insanity – that is what prompted the call this morning. Everyone has been telling me “work with your passion, do what you truly love” – in my head I just kept thinking; “I have to do whatever it takes to get from a) – being where I am now; to b) where it is I want to be – BUT I must be building a profitable business model in the process.
So how does one do such a thing?
To me, I had kind of resolved that I would just do whatever it takes, regardless of passion – no airy fairy stuff was to go on – set a goal and just do it was my mindset – but I kept getting this niggle….. that something was just not right. I know that the saying about ‘doing what you love’ isn’t a fallacy; the last business I built and became phenomenally passionate about went through the roof – so I felt it has become my mission to replicate this.
This morning Jen got me to realize the fact of the matter; that I do what I do to be able to give Jessee quality of life – a stay at home mum who is there for her – which ultimately has been my goal all along – and I’m doing just that – so for me it’s about evolution – what comes next>?
It’s now about taking a direction that doesn’t take away from what I have already achieved. Does that make sense?
I thought finding the passion was about finding the passion to work with; from a business point of view, not life – and this is where the problem was. When getting drilled to gain clarity; for me it wasn’t about the money, it wasn’t about houses or cars or material possessions but through complete overwhelm I had problems really getting clear on why I do what I do – ultimately, this morning I realized it’s for Jessee – before she was born it was to be a ‘stay at home mum’ and now that she’s here – it’s to be a ‘stay at home mum’. Although, I lost focus on that simple fact because I had once again became completely overwhelmed.
So if you’re in your business trying to find direction, passion and focus and have been struggling with it – maybe you’re looking at it from the wrong angle. Maybe what you think you want, isn’t really what you want at your core; maybe as I discovered; it’s a whole lot more simple but a whole lot grander at the same time.
Being a ‘New Entrepreneur’
My overall point for this article, is as entrepreneurs we focus on the ‘business’ aspect and lose sight of the emotional and spiritual aspect. This was my BIGGEST MISTAKE as a new entrepreneur. I totally took for granted the importance that the other components made!

Gaining success as an entrepreneur is a whole lot more involved than just smart marketing. There are many processes an entrepreneur will go through to becoming a roaring success; and this has been my greatest realization. It’s like a balancing act right; it doesn’t matter how good you get at some thing’s if you’re not aligned and balanced, the tower falls apart. It’s like building a skyscraper on quicksand.
Freedom to Be – YOU
I could write a thousand pages on my journey with Jen; but the most profound changes have come about since using the “Freedom to Be Program”.
I traveled to Melbourne when I was 6 weeks pregnant to attend Jen’s “Reclaim Your Power” event and met Jen for the first time, being welcomed in to her home by her gorgeous family – it really enlightened me and opened the doors to a “New Entrepreneur” way of thinking. It kind of scratched the surface on some massive issues and changed the way I look at business in life. I do stray from time to time though – like most ‘entrepreneurs’.
All of a sudden I felt OK to just be ‘me’ – I didn’t feel that I had anyone to impress, any rules to conform to – I could just let go and get inside my own heart and switch off my head for once. The sense of freedom was phenomenal.
My Life Was in Meltdown
When my little girl was 9 weeks old, I found myself single, living at my brother’s house – a far cry from where I thought I would be at that point in my life. I didn’t have time to feel sorry for myself – I just had to keep on keeping on but once again in complete overwhelm I felt stuck and restless. Jen suggested I try the ‘Freedom to Be’ program; she’d suggested it plenty of times before but I just didn’t have the headspace; once it arrived and I started actually using it (which took another 8 weeks) I was completely KICKING MYSELF for not beginning it sooner!
THE RESULTS WERE PROFOUND
I can’t really even explain what happened. I just took Jen’s advise and trusted it would work. All of a sudden I began to gain clarity and started making massive shifts in my life; Jen’s advise was to just trust that it would work and so I did just that. I just started using it and all of a sudden I slept better, I felt a profound amount of inner peace and calm and started to make headway and gain strength.
Once again, back in a frustrated state, I know it’s because I haven’t been using the program, when I stop (which is highly ridiculous in the first place because I know I need to do it). Talk about the ‘SECRET’ and ‘LAW OF ATTRACTION’ in ACTION – the crazy thing is; get this;
Inside the ‘Freedom to Be’ program there’s this visualization book which is an integral part of the program; I remember when Jen first told me about it – I was like “freaking artwork; how the hell will art and meditation help me” – I was skeptical to say the least; but seriously was at a point where I had nothing to lose and trusted Jen – so I just did what she said.
After my first session I rang Jen absolutely floored! The book, that ‘crazy artwork’ ahh it opened to the EXACT page I needed – like seriously, to the EXACT question I asked; I was beside myself “Jen Jen Jen Jen Jen – the CRAZIEST thing happened” I said before relaying to her what happened – she just laughed – she already knew that would happen, she didn’t tell me it would happen – I was seriously WOWED. Thinking maybe it was just chance I let it go. But then it happened AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN….!
So does the “Freedom to Be” program work? Ah yes; I will tell you what Jen told me – I don’t know why – I don’t know what – but I can tell you – it’s like the universe in action – giving you what you need to move forward. Don’t just take my word for it – there’s are plenty of other people experiencing the same phenomenal results – you can see for yourself here: ===>> Freedom to be Program – check it out here
February 18, 2011
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